Missing You
Joi
Star Kitty’s Revenge, 2002
Ok, I’m taking a little bit of a chance this week. First off, the artwork is a little crazy. Second, I can’t recommend this album for purchase, in fact, I don’t recommend it. But I request that you let this one song into your life, if at all possible.
This is one of the most unintentionally sensory-based songs I’ve ever heard. She literally covers all five senses (as I’m silly enough to demonstrate below) and although the texture of the musical backdrop can’t quite cover the same ground, it holds its own.
What I love about this song first and foremost is that it’s one of those songs that’s a little too random and specific to not at least be based on something real. I really doubt that someone woke up one day and said, “I’m going to write an R&B song this morning” and this came out. The writing credit actually goes to Gipp from Goodie Mob (her husband) and Dallas Austin, which is surprising based on how personal the lyrics seem but I don’t care - whoever wrote it was drawing on some personal drama!
Second, the musical backdrop is totally simple but manages to be funky (in a driven kind of way) yet warm and cozy at the same time. I’m always immediately drawn into this song from the first three seconds (yes, all 35 times - thank you iTunes “Play Count”) but I’m always jumping ahead, waiting for her voice to crack when she says “chicken” and for the beat to drop at 0:37. Just listening right now, I realized that there is a rain stick in this song. Funk guitar licks, bass, drum set, two kinds of organ, and…a rain stick. I guess that’s how they pulled it off.
One of the things that makes this song so dynamic musically is that they drop all the instruments out except guitar, bass and drums (@ 2:11) for 8 bars to remind us that it’s all resting on top of some funk and then they drop us right back in.
The best one second of the song is 2:29, the one beat anticipation in the organ that brings all of the lush instrumentation back in as Joi launches into her idiosyncratic list of what she misses about her M.I.A. lover. My eyes half-close every time 2:29 comes around in anticipation of the confluence of that damn rain stick(!) the organs and “i miss your smell”.
My best stab at the lyrics:
I miss you baby
Since you’ve been gone
Why’d you have to stay gone so long?
Yesterday…seems so far away
Cause I can’t see your beautiful face (sight)
I do the same shit night after night
I even fried that chicken you like (taste)
I open up the window so you can smell it cross town (smell)
And maybe it will bring you back around
I’m missing you (baby, baby, baby)
Wishing you were here, baby (I don’t know what I’m gonna do without cha)
I’m missing you, babe
Wishing you were here, baby (I’ma need you to go on and come on home)
After argument #42
I said I was really gonna be through fuckin’ wit you
But all these lonely nights are killin’ me
So now I’m - I’m longin’ for #43
I listen to the silence, I can hear you say [sing?] (hearing)
“But baby, please don’t give my pussy away”
I’ll keep my legs together cause your doin’ [you do it?] better
Better than those other girls and boys anyway [?]
I’m missing you, baby
Wishing you were here, baby (and I really, really need you to come on)
I’m missing you
Wishing you were here, baby (and I really need you to come on home)
I’m missing you
Wishing you were here, baby (I’m missing you, I’m missing you)
I’m missing you
Wishing you were here, baby (and I need you to come on home)
(instrumental vamp)
I miss your smell (smell x2)
I miss your walk
I miss your laugh
I miss your talk
I miss your best
I miss your worst
I miss the last line
I miss the first
I miss the way you never seemed to care
I miss the way you’d never played fair
I miss the way you’d lose your keys
I miss the way you’d get on your knees
I miss the way you kiss my lips (touch)
I miss the way you grab my hips (touch)
I miss the way you pull my hair (touch)
I miss your daisy underwear [?]
I’m missing you
Wishing you were here, baby (and I really, really need you to come on)
I’m missing you
Wishing you were here, baby (and I need you, need you, need you to come on home)
I’m missing you (come on babe)
Wishing you were here, baby
I’m missing you
Wishing you were here, baby (and I hope, need you to come on home)
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